A
very familiar phrase that you must have come across “If you happened to fall in
love the second time, it wasn’t actually Love the first time” Very true indeed!
Isn’t it? It takes a lot of guts to fall in love for the second time because,
generally, majority of people do not have very good experience from the first
love. And once you do, you make sure it lasts forever. You get attached to that
person more than you were ever with anyone. Second love holds a special place.
It heals you and makes you feel better.
Let’s
know why second love is way better than the first love.
Healing
Second
love heals a lot! It heals to an extent where you are compelled to fall in love
all over again. Humans are attracted to people who love them and care for them
( well, so are animals!) It has got that power to heal and makes you better.
Strength
It
gives you strength! The post break up part, where you keep lamenting, it’s the
love who gives you strength to move on. A very unconditional support!
Intensity
Since
you have faced a heartbreaking experience in your first relationship, the
intensity of love in the second one will be way more! Trust establishes and you
are likely to be crazy about each other in a positive way.
Security
Second
love is a secured one. You know you are not just fooling around but pretty
serious about the future. Hence there is a constant feeling of security because
you’re like you’ve had enough for the first time.
Understanding
Experience
makes a man perfect! Once you are experienced in something, you automatically
get good at it. So consider the first love as a trial, with second love your
understanding gets better.
Pampered
Second love is mostly pampered and so it’s
better than the first love. You both are so much into each other that pampering
becomes a normal thing.
Lesser Arguments
Now
that you know where an argument would lead, you’ll be aware of what you speak
and what could hurt the other person.
More
Commitment
You
are more committed to your second love because there is a fear deep inside that
you might lose them! So, second love is way better!
Faith
Your
second love knows how to tackle you in different circumstances. Faith makes
second love even more stronger and better.
Long lasting
Even
if it ends at some point of time, you’ll notice it lasted long enough!
While
reading all these points, if you were thinking that what if it’s the third
love!
Then you probably need a Love Doctor! All the best.